FRENULUM MASSAGE Make a U shape with your fingers and thumb. Place
your finger on the top side of the penis and your thumb on the underside,
directly on the frenulum (where the shaft connects to the head), and massage,
rubbing your thumb in a clockwise circular motion. Every 15 seconds,
switch back and forth between clockwise and counterclockwise. Try it first,
gently, without lube. Then, as you continue the circular massage, put a few
drops of lube on the penis with your other hand and continue, noticing the
difference in sensations that arise.
HAND WRINGING Cup the head of your partner’s penis in both hands and
wring your hands, making a motion like you are washing your hands with soap
and water.
VIBRATOR ON PENIS Turn your vibrator on and cup it in your hand, making
a fist around it. Rub your now vibrating fist gently along the underside of your
partner’s penis from the head, down the shaft, and down the seam of the
scrotum. Gauge your partner’s feedback and sensitivity. If this was not too
sensitive, try it again with the vibrator directly on the genitals without your
hand as a buffer. What spot gave the most response? The frenulum? The
scrotal seam? Concentrate the vibrations in those areas.